Hooking UP with other bboys in the area..

VicValSwift · **Hooking UP with other bboys in the area.. -** 10-21-2007, 07:56 PM

What are your opinions? Honestly. My girl and I end up arguing over this. She goes "you don't think that's weird that you go to meet up with someone you don't know AT ALL?" she thinks it's weird and that i must be desperate if i'm gonna try and meet up with some stranger just to bboy, and that i could really get hurt. wtf? I don't understand her problem.

that's beside the point, i'm not trying to bring my personal matters in this. but what do you guys think of this? It's normal, right?

Backfire · 10-21-2007, 08:04 PM

yup, i think it is

Bboywhiterice · 10-21-2007, 08:27 PM

why wouldnt it be? what are the odds there's a freak on this sight like that( its possible dont get me wrong) but...you never know so be careful.

StylistiC-SMiLeY · 10-21-2007, 08:34 PM

Her fear is based upon everything that the media says about meeting someone from the internet. Most of which is blown waaaaaaaaaay out of proportion.

k1ng · 10-21-2007, 09:30 PM

some explanations:
it's the underground nature of bboying. you meet heads who are devoted to the true dance of hip hop and you learn from them. it is the only real way of learning, from the bboys themselves.
it's the artistic nature of bboying. you aren't paying for dance lessons or going to sessions without the hope of improving. you are looking for a way to take part in an art form that can enable you to express yourself.
it's the diverse nature of bboying. there are so many people outside your little world that come together for one thing.

i can see how your girlfriend is uncomfortable when she probably knows none of this. you should explain to her clearly that bboying isn't about mischief.

that all being said, be careful about who you session with and where though...

VicValSwift · 10-21-2007, 10:08 PM

^Yeah thanks for that, well me and my girl ended up getting into an even bigger fight because of this ending up with her breaking up with me.. and i'm tryna to convince her to come back.. but that's something else.

I've tried explaining to her, but she insists that "it's common sense not to meet with strangers!" and i told her that it's part of the culture but she just won't take any explanation.. period. I've told her that she just needs to understand that that's what it's about, but she can't bring herself to accept it because she's so stuck on it being stupid and common sense not to mess with strangers period. Saying that it makes sense that she doesn't want me doing it because i'd be alone and who knows what may happen to me =/

it's almost common sense tho that you would meet up with other bboys in the community in your area, is it not? That's a main aspect of being in a culture, community, to meet up with people that do with you do and share it with them. And when i told her that it's what a bboy does, is go and meet and session with other bboys, she said that it hurt when i said it. =/

Pluto · 10-21-2007, 10:24 PM

If you want to meet another bboy meet at a jam =p

PopTrunk · 10-21-2007, 11:22 PM

Did u at least bone her?
...Oh wait- ur saying ur trying to get her back... that answers my question.

Well I guess dont meet anyone online, till u smash her... then go on and meet Online-Predators (aka Magic2020) at McDonalds.

I've met people on here, and nothing happened.
-Literally, NOTHING, because we didn't do SHIT.
-Just stood in the parking lot, awkwardly staring at each other.
-Calling each other by our Bboy.org usernames, not real names.

^^^^
...LoL.

Anyway, let me put it simply:
-Do her.
-Do it.
-Do the Dew.

BboySiro · 10-21-2007, 11:25 PM

she watches dateline nbc too much!

B-BoyKasper · 10-22-2007, 01:28 AM

lol just meet with ppl at community centres, with the amount of poeple there a sexuaL predator is less likely to be there let alone try to rape you in a corner. Shizz she broke up with u for that? WtF mate thats retarded.

dangflo · 10-22-2007, 01:51 AM

Originally Posted by PopTrunk

I've met people on here, and nothing happened.
[color="DimGray"]-Literally, NOTHING, because we didn't do SHIT.
-Just stood in the parking lot, awkwardly staring at each other.
-Calling each other by our Bboy.org usernames, not real names.

gahahaha who did you meet from bboyorg, you guys didnt break or wha?

NiSenNen · 10-22-2007, 08:13 AM

It's hard enough for me to meet other bboys in my area,
let alone get people to break.
Frankly, I'd take every chance I can find.

10-22-2007, 10:17 AM

just explain to her that bboys are invincible so nothing can happen. (but be careful she may try to prove you wrong by immediately kicking you in the junk).

PopTrunk · 10-23-2007, 12:24 AM

Originally Posted by dangflo

gahahaha who did you meet from bboyorg, you guys didnt break or wha?

LoL. That didn't really happen, but it sounds fuckin funny though.
...I wish it wudda happened, just for how damn hilarious it would be.

I met some people, like 2.

I wish to drop no names, even though I already did in my previous post.

It was cool.
We still meet every now and then.
Dudes live across town though, so thats why we dont meet up often.
-Yeah, we actually sessioned.

Vice President · 10-23-2007, 02:47 AM

it doesn't help that you refer to it as "hooking up" with other bboys.

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VicValSwift Emcee/B-Boy Respect: 7 Posts: 2,551 Join Date: May 2006 Location: Frisco, Cali	Hooking UP with other bboys in the area.. - 10-21-2007, 07:56 PM What are your opinions? Honestly. My girl and I end up arguing over this. She goes "you don't think that's weird that you go to meet up with someone you don't know AT ALL?" she thinks it's weird and that i must be desperate if i'm gonna try and meet up with some stranger just to bboy, and that i could really get hurt. wtf? I don't understand her problem. that's beside the point, i'm not trying to bring my personal matters in this. but what do you guys think of this? It's normal, right?


Backfire Custom User Title Respect: 3 Posts: 1,204 Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: TORONTO (GTA)	10-21-2007, 08:04 PM yup, i think it is
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Bboywhiterice CIRCLE NERDZ CREW Respect: 6.5 Posts: 2,137 Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: M-Town	10-21-2007, 08:27 PM why wouldnt it be? what are the odds there's a freak on this sight like that( its possible dont get me wrong) but...you never know so be careful.
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StylistiC-SMiLeY 日本人 Respect: 6.5 Posts: 1,526 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Suburb Near Chicago	10-21-2007, 08:34 PM Her fear is based upon everything that the media says about meeting someone from the internet. Most of which is blown waaaaaaaaaay out of proportion.
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k1ng Dallas, Texas Respect: 12.5 Posts: 1,009 Join Date: May 2006	10-21-2007, 09:30 PM some explanations: it's the underground nature of bboying. you meet heads who are devoted to the true dance of hip hop and you learn from them. it is the only real way of learning, from the bboys themselves. it's the artistic nature of bboying. you aren't paying for dance lessons or going to sessions without the hope of improving. you are looking for a way to take part in an art form that can enable you to express yourself. it's the diverse nature of bboying. there are so many people outside your little world that come together for one thing. i can see how your girlfriend is uncomfortable when she probably knows none of this. you should explain to her clearly that bboying isn't about mischief. that all being said, be careful about who you session with and where though...


VicValSwift Emcee/B-Boy Respect: 7 Posts: 2,551 Join Date: May 2006 Location: Frisco, Cali	10-21-2007, 10:08 PM ^Yeah thanks for that, well me and my girl ended up getting into an even bigger fight because of this ending up with her breaking up with me.. and i'm tryna to convince her to come back.. but that's something else. I've tried explaining to her, but she insists that "it's common sense not to meet with strangers!" and i told her that it's part of the culture but she just won't take any explanation.. period. I've told her that she just needs to understand that that's what it's about, but she can't bring herself to accept it because she's so stuck on it being stupid and common sense not to mess with strangers period. Saying that it makes sense that she doesn't want me doing it because i'd be alone and who knows what may happen to me =/ it's almost common sense tho that you would meet up with other bboys in the community in your area, is it not? That's a main aspect of being in a culture, community, to meet up with people that do with you do and share it with them. And when i told her that it's what a bboy does, is go and meet and session with other bboys, she said that it hurt when i said it. =/


Pluto Noobie Respect: 1.5 Posts: 235 Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Manado	10-21-2007, 10:24 PM If you want to meet another bboy meet at a jam =p
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PopTrunk Back for the First Time. Respect: 7 Posts: 1,638 Join Date: May 2006 Location: Houston, TX	10-21-2007, 11:22 PM Did u at least bone her? ...Oh wait- ur saying ur trying to get her back... that answers my question. Well I guess dont meet anyone online, till u smash her... then go on and meet Online-Predators (aka Magic2020) at McDonalds. I've met people on here, and nothing happened. -Literally, NOTHING, because we didn't do SHIT. -Just stood in the parking lot, awkwardly staring at each other. -Calling each other by our Bboy.org usernames, not real names. ^^^^ ...LoL. Anyway, let me put it simply: -Do her. -Do it. -Do the Dew.
	G.O.A.T.


BboySiro Full Member Respect: 1 Posts: 7 Join Date: Feb 2007	10-21-2007, 11:25 PM she watches dateline nbc too much!


B-BoyKasper BBOY INFINITY Respect: 2 Posts: 455 Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Toronto (GTA)	10-22-2007, 01:28 AM lol just meet with ppl at community centres, with the amount of poeple there a sexuaL predator is less likely to be there let alone try to rape you in a corner. Shizz she broke up with u for that? WtF mate thats retarded.


Posts: n/a	10-22-2007, 10:17 AM just explain to her that bboys are invincible so nothing can happen. (but be careful she may try to prove you wrong by immediately kicking you in the junk).
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Vice President Best member ever. Respect: 18 Posts: 4,594 Join Date: Jul 2004	10-23-2007, 02:47 AM it doesn't help that you refer to it as "hooking up" with other bboys.