anyone here get jealous and do things out of spite because of the jealousy?

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discuss....

Transcendent · 04-06-2007, 01:36 AM

not out of jealousy, i dont think. I used to throw temper tantrums when I was little when my mom pissed me off as revenge, though. it embarrassed the fuck outta her. damn, I was a fucked up little kid...

shrapple · 04-06-2007, 01:38 AM

jealousy is a very sensitive subject that ive come to terms with, im jealous of alot of things, but because of my own neivity I never pursue this inner rage that is called jealousy

Coolguy · 04-06-2007, 02:01 AM

If I see something I'm jealous of I make a joke about like "damn, that s***s makin me jealous over here hahaha" I don't feel mad upset or insecure. I am 22 and I understand that I can't have all the coolest s*** or do all the coolest s*** in the world. If I see something I really really like i'm gonna pursue it but otherwise nah.

Jealousy is recognizing that someone else has something that you don't. Spite is a deeper seeded insecurity that grows because you can't control what you don't have.

Jealousy is perfectly healthy. Insecurities and anger issues are whackalicious.

shrapple · 04-06-2007, 02:04 AM

good point, but i think the breaking point is when someone DOES something out of spite because of the jealousy. I've tried so many things to control my jealousy and i think the best ting to do is to just be jealous and hopefully something will good will come out of it.

AK47 · 04-06-2007, 02:43 AM

Shouldn't this be in the General Discussion forum?

04-06-2007, 08:09 AM

im jealous of all the bboys that can do airflares lol. but seriously i dont get jealous really that often im just happy with what i got.

blakpepa · 04-06-2007, 01:45 PM

nah i dont really be jealous of ppl.
but a person who would do things out of spite jus because of jealousy very often deffinitely has mental issues

shrapple · 04-08-2007, 03:10 AM

thats what we all say to ourselves that we are happy with what we got but admitting and acknowleding jealousy is how to get what you really want, something i recently learned, its really hard!

[Sikk] · 04-08-2007, 03:34 AM

Originally Posted by blakpepa

nah i dont really be jealous of ppl.
but a person who would do things out of spite jus because of jealousy very often deffinitely has mental issues

Mental issues? Why should a person get to decide what another person should do? That doesn't mean they have mental issues, it just means you're judgemental. You should probably work on that mental issue.

Desi Boogie · 04-08-2007, 10:11 AM

Jealousy breeds resentment, anger, hatred, of all these things a jedi must be mindful.

Peace

RingerINC · 04-08-2007, 12:58 PM

Originally Posted by [Sikk]

Mental issues? Why should a person get to decide what another person should do? That doesn't mean they have mental issues, it just means you're judgemental. You should probably work on that mental issue.

Hahaha, served.

Desi Boogie · 04-08-2007, 01:05 PM

Damn Sikk that line was COLD!

Peace from Blazed Land

Kevetic · 04-08-2007, 03:34 PM

i dont really get jealous..

jealousy fuels motivation for meeh... for instance

if im jealous of someone's bboying, it will fuel my motivation leading me away from anger and doing something stupid instead itll lead me to doing better at achieving what i want or obtaining that thing im jealous of..

Bboy-Seijou · 04-08-2007, 03:47 PM

i got jealous of this guy who airflared n front of my face. so i kicked his stomach and he fell.

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shrapple Guest Respect: 2 Posts: 281 Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Los Angeles	anyone here get jealous and do things out of spite because of the jealousy? - 04-06-2007, 01:24 AM discuss....


Transcendent Formerly Known as 61!/V9 Respect: 40.5 Posts: 4,738 Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Killa Kali	04-06-2007, 01:36 AM not out of jealousy, i dont think. I used to throw temper tantrums when I was little when my mom pissed me off as revenge, though. it embarrassed the fuck outta her. damn, I was a fucked up little kid...
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shrapple Guest Respect: 2 Posts: 281 Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Los Angeles	04-06-2007, 01:38 AM jealousy is a very sensitive subject that ive come to terms with, im jealous of alot of things, but because of my own neivity I never pursue this inner rage that is called jealousy


Coolguy BBoy Autonom Respect: 3.5 Posts: 179 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Westminster, CO USA	04-06-2007, 02:01 AM If I see something I'm jealous of I make a joke about like "damn, that s*s makin me jealous over here hahaha" I don't feel mad upset or insecure. I am 22 and I understand that I can't have all the coolest s* or do all the coolest s*** in the world. If I see something I really really like i'm gonna pursue it but otherwise nah. Jealousy is recognizing that someone else has something that you don't. Spite is a deeper seeded insecurity that grows because you can't control what you don't have. Jealousy is perfectly healthy. Insecurities and anger issues are whackalicious.


shrapple Guest Respect: 2 Posts: 281 Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Los Angeles	04-06-2007, 02:04 AM good point, but i think the breaking point is when someone DOES something out of spite because of the jealousy. I've tried so many things to control my jealousy and i think the best ting to do is to just be jealous and hopefully something will good will come out of it.


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blakpepa Da Island bad boy Respect: 1 Posts: 53 Join Date: Apr 2007	04-06-2007, 01:45 PM nah i dont really be jealous of ppl. but a person who would do things out of spite jus because of jealousy very often deffinitely has mental issues


shrapple Guest Respect: 2 Posts: 281 Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Los Angeles	04-08-2007, 03:10 AM thats what we all say to ourselves that we are happy with what we got but admitting and acknowleding jealousy is how to get what you really want, something i recently learned, its really hard!


Desi Boogie Real Talk Respect: 18 Posts: 3,720 Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Newcastle, Australia	04-08-2007, 10:11 AM Jealousy breeds resentment, anger, hatred, of all these things a jedi must be mindful. Peace
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Desi Boogie Real Talk Respect: 18 Posts: 3,720 Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Newcastle, Australia	04-08-2007, 01:05 PM Damn Sikk that line was COLD! Peace from Blazed Land
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Kevetic The Wiz Respect: 10.5 Posts: 1,477 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Killa City, Missouri	04-08-2007, 03:34 PM i dont really get jealous.. jealousy fuels motivation for meeh... for instance if im jealous of someone's bboying, it will fuel my motivation leading me away from anger and doing something stupid instead itll lead me to doing better at achieving what i want or obtaining that thing im jealous of..
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Bboy-Seijou Member Respect: 1 Posts: 40 Join Date: Apr 2007	04-08-2007, 03:47 PM i got jealous of this guy who airflared n front of my face. so i kicked his stomach and he fell.