DaMastakeys avatar is a cutie
When it comes to your own style of toprock, take things you do well, you can add anything and EVERYTHING into making your own style and making it flow for you. Just because a couple people don't like it, OR.... you feel retarded doing it.... I always found that once you feel comfortable in what your doing... its a sign of improving. People try newer and more difficult things once they get over the fear of looking retarded.
Watch Tv, watch other kids (don't bite, change what they did to fit you), learn other dance styles and add those in. All of it will set you apart from the kids who just do the basic top rock .. if theres such a thing.