[MuffinJuice]

I never said I was gay. I said I've been with both sexes and that my gender is queer. I haven't even gotten into my sexuality. You will never understand what it's like to be a woman, just like I won't ever fully understand what it's like to be a woman OR a man. Gender is something that is entirely separate from physical sex, and sexuality is entirely separate from both gender and sex.

I am physically a male, emotionally only 30% male, and my sexuality can be defined as pansexual. Pansexuals totally ignore physical features when being attracted to someone. It doesn't matter if they are a boy, girl, mixed, lacking, or otherwise.

I will resume having sex when I feel it's the right time in my life. At the moment, I'm going through a lot of chemical and energy imbalances and I need to recenter myself before I go and do that. Some people may abstain for religious reasons, right? My religion is not formed around morals, but around personal development and understanding. Sex is charged with a great deal of emotions-- As the emtional character I am, I'm not willing to complexify my life by throwing that in the mix at the moment.
I have a lot of growing to do before I expand those horizons any further.

[TuanAnh]

honestly i find two women kissing each other is hot. fuck america, but props to california. we allow homosexuals. i'm heterosexual, but i support gay

[Mr.Remote]

okay you lost me with that one sorry. I fail, and give up lol. it was interesting though......... ima pray for you though bro, i feel you need idk a shrink lol. no but reallllllllyyyyyyyyy, how do you feel?

[MuffinJuice]

Originally Posted by TuanAnh

honestly i find two women kissing each other is hot. fuck america, but props to california. we allow homosexuals. i'm heterosexual, but i support gay

HAHAHA. Rock on, man. California is its own freakin country, anyway.

Originally Posted by Mr.Remote

okay you lost me with that one sorry. I fail, and give up lol. it was interesting though......... ima pray for you though bro, i feel you need idk a shrink lol. no but reallllllllyyyyyyyyy, how do you feel?

Yeah, if it's hard for you to wrap your brain around, imagine what it's like to have to live with it. The feeling for 19 years that, "hmmm.. I don't feel normal." and then slowly beginning to put the clues together and realizing why you were always different. THEN having a roommate who says anything that's stupid is "sooooo queer!" and watching a popular television show that portrays being queer as a curse and something to fret over.

I have the name and number of a therapist in my pocket at this very moment. Some day I'll grow the guts to dial the number, though my excuse for the time being is that if I wait until August 20th, I can use JMU's free counseling center.

I feel very antsy at the moment cuz I have <2 hours of work left for the week!

[TuanAnh]

offtopic: i think america should allow something like you can marry more than one wife.

[Mr.Remote]

ahhh lol im at work now, and free counslouling isnt good, you'll eaither end up banging the couserler or learning nothing new at all.

[MuffinJuice]

hahaha. well i'm also in an apprenticeship right now (kinda) to learn energy healing, mainly as an empath, but i can apply the principles to myself and help myself out.

[-bboy-Jazz-]

Originally Posted by Mr.Remote

ahhh lol im at work now, and free counslouling isnt good, you'll eaither end up banging the couserler or learning nothing new at all.

so its a win win right>?

[MuffinJuice]

hahahaha.

[RuicisLV]

well i dont mind gay people if they dont bother me , and i like lesbians except that means less pussy too us XD... but idk why homosexuals are making ''Pride'' parade (maybe Praid dont know how to spell in english) ....why they are showing off their community on us with that event once per year?!?! in that case it should be fair if straight oriented people or bisexuals should make their own parade one per year too...

So shortly it means-i love lesbians and got some as friends , i support gays till they dont bother me....seeing what happens nowadays i dont understand why biggest part of people say that homosexualism is bad...I think u should be allowed to love whoever u want...

[MuffinJuice]

you had it right with both Pride and the word Parade.
Yes, ICantSeeYou: Straight Pride Parade to be Held in New York City
and there are straight pride parades.

usually the parade is there for gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgenders and is openly expressed as such

[chris051991]

Meh. Americans are the same with women too. I go to europe or brazil and I get all touchy with women and its nothing. Here if I even try to touch someone and people think it's like i'm in love or something.

[giovannile07]

Originally Posted by Mr.Remote

lol no excuses hoe... =P jp jp jp

arrgghh im bored.... and how old are you? damn i get hugs from all my female friends, even when there mad at me or i just met them...... you get no love when your young i swear hahahaha

who me? i'm 15.

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this topic went from skinship to being okay with homosexuals, although i myself am fine with homosexuals as long as they don't do anything in a physical way towards me...haha... anyways, the skinship thing(sorry if it feels like i'm ending the thing you started MuffinJuice ^^; ).

Originally Posted by StylistiC-SMiLeY

It's not Americans. It's the world in general. Most of the world's religions are at their base level very intolerant of LGBT people. That certainly doesn't help for accepting gay people. Also we're taught from a young age that love is between a man and a woman, blah blah blah, people are prejudiced because that's the way it is.

this makes a great point for the skinship thing. we ARE taught that love is between a man and a woman not between a man and a man or a woman and a woman. i think this greatly effects skinship for Americans and other people as well. just like how we're taught not to eat things off the ground, some people still do it, this also goes for skinship i guess.

[DirrtyChinaMan]

muffinjuice, you really do sound like one of my old (ex) friend. dont get me wrong he's not my ex friend because he's gay or whatnot, but that we just went separate ways after high school. its interesting to just find out kind of what he's feeling. just curious, what do your parents think about this? i know that his parents were outraged when they found out he has had intimate relations with another male person. he was trying to explain to them that he doesnt even know what he is himself. like he's neutral and doesnt know what he wants