[Desi Boogie]

Are you sure it's love or the idea of being in love? Cause it may just be that things have become stale with you and your girl and that you need to reaffirm why you fell for her in the first place. Don't throw away what may be a great thing because of a passing infatuation.

Of course if it really is love and you really are no longer in love with your current girl friend, you may really be in a bad situation and need to evaluate things from a detached perspective.

Peace

[jonnyz]

Sanjay says:
you need to really detach yourself from your emotional side and look at the cold hard facts of your two relationships,

I do, but it's like... The only thing that I would want my partner to have is an innate connection with me. The best relationships in my life are with people who I have that connection with. I have it with one of my male friends, which means he can understand me on a deep level, but I'm not homosexual. I've only come across one girl in my life who I have that connection with, and that's this girl..

My connection with my girlfriend was built over a period of many years, and I'm close to her and I love her, but it feels like something is missing, and that thing that's missing is the innate sort of connection. That's why I don't see myself marrying my girlfriend, but if I had the chance, I would marry the other girl in a heart beat (well not at the moment, but like, I would in the future at an appropriate time for marriage).

I don't care if it's not real love I feel for this other girl... Because I'm lonely... I've been lonely my whole life, so I looked for answers and found them. I don't need this girl to be happy, I don't need anything to be content, this life is like a heaven for me... But sometimes I like to play this game of life and really get lost, because being at the same level all the time would be boring, even if that level was contentment.

So I'm lonely in my little world, and when I hold my gf in my arms and look into her eyes, I'm still lonely. But even just being in the same room with this other girl, I feel like I'm with someone that really sees me, and I'm not alone anymore. It's the same with that mate of mine, he is my only companion in life other than her. So, I don't care if it's not love, I don't care what it is, I want it.

[PopTrunk]

Fuck my Life Entertainment is officially in the building right now.

[snoopy8]

so my new problem is... im too fucken jealous. i like this girl, she still likes her ex, i get jealous... thats basically it for now lol

[SuAZN]

guys always get hella jealous like that..its hella annoying..my social problem is that...my board didnt show up to our club meeting...soo disappoining..

[FreestyleUnltd™]

I just met the nicest person about 2 1/2 weeks ago. But she is moving to Vegas I know we just met but she is SOOOO nice and cool. I wished her all the best which is good

[BrianJanMapili]

alright so im dating this girl named lourie. shes pretty chill n everything and weve been dating for like 6 months. her dad passed away few years ago. and her cousin moved in recently with her. her mom and brother dont dislike me because of the rumors they hear about me but didnt get the chance to get to know me. her cousin is a ghost whisperer n talked to my girlfriends dad n also said he doesnt like me. her mom and her are coming to my hosue tommrow so her mom can talk to me n tell me to stop talking to her. my girlfriend also argues n says i dont love her n shit n if i really do to show it tommrow to her mom. some questions i have are...

1: is it our relationship pretty much gameover because her dead dad said he doesnt like me?

2: what should i say to her mother and at the same time show that i love n care about her?

(also, the ghost whisperer thing isnt bullshit)

[Desi Boogie]

No pussy is worth that.

Unless you wanna marry that bitch, i'd say get the hell up out of there and get as far away from that clairvoyant bs as possible.

Unless she's really hot and has the best body, EVER. In which case just finesse that shit and get her parents to believe some other voodoo shit.

Peace

[bboyBr3ak3r]

who care wat they think
if u love her just do wat best

PS: Wow a ghost wisperer
think they been lyin to u man

[[Sikk]]

You're a terrible person? Just leave it be, break it off.

[bBoyacenIT]

damn your girl is puttin you on the spot like that? thinkin you dont love her? pffft man lemme tell you somethin

most relationships ive been in the girl's family HATED me. and that shit is gonna keep goin on and on and on and on and on and on and on and to tell uthe truth it gets fuckin on ur nerves!!! i can deal with the girl, i mean if i care about her i'll do anythin EVEn if she doesnt say how much she appreciates me. if u been with a girl that long (6 months) u should know by now when she does or doesnt appreciate u. she doesnt gotta tell you. but if she pulls some shit like that "o u dont love me enuff" like straight out says that shit i dunno. that would push me off the edge haha u kno?

dealin wit her family aint worth it tho. i speak from experience if u didn catch.

[BrianJanMapili]

Originally Posted by bboyBr3ak3r who care wat they think if u love her just do wat best PS: Wow a ghost wisperer think they been lyin to u man

iuno mang cause even before she came (cousin) she always hear shit. and her cousin likes me n wouldnt think she would lie bout that lmfao.

[BrianJanMapili]

Originally Posted by bBoyacenIT damn your girl is puttin you on the spot like that? thinkin you dont love her? pffft man lemme tell you somethin most relationships ive been in the girl's family HATED me. and that shit is gonna keep goin on and on and on and on and on and on and on and to tell uthe truth it gets fuckin on ur nerves!!! i can deal with the girl, i mean if i care about her i'll do anythin EVEn if she doesnt say how much she appreciates me. if u been with a girl that long (6 months) u should know by now when she does or doesnt appreciate u. she doesnt gotta tell you. but if she pulls some shit like that "o u dont love me enuff" like straight out says that shit i dunno. that would push me off the edge haha u kno? dealin wit her family aint worth it tho. i speak from experience if u didn catch.

thanks for the advice bro. buh shes always been saying shit like that. how i dont give a fuck about her n stuff. shes been sayin that for awhile now. iuno she went through alot for me. but i kinda wanna break it off but its kinda hard. she says she cries everyday cause of me but most of the time i didnt do shit. so i wanna break it off so she will stop crying. iuno i guess i juss gotta think bout it more.

[Fitwee]

ghost whisperers...
that's wack.
Seriously, that's all I have to say.

[maoc389]

not really a problem, more like a situation.

i got this completely awesome girl. we're both not clingy to eachother but know that we'd be with eachother in a heartbeat if we needed it, we can go days without texting/calling without being worried about eachother, and theres just this connection that enables us to live our lives normally like we'd do without eachother. Its the best feeling in the world when you call a girl for the first time in two-three days and shes not mad at all, but happy to hear your voice.

If anything, i'm more clingy than she is. I do plenty of cutesy things with her, and have fun in general. The only issue is, while i'm not actually in love, i'm infatuated with her and we're both leaving for college in two months. These two months are gonna be amazing and awesome, and i know it, but i'm dreading that i'll become clingy and depressive when she leaves, because its happened before. We both dont' want long distance relationships because they never work, and we're not emotionally attached enough to have one. Whilst being loyal to eachother, its not like we're in such a deep loving relationship that its impossible to break off.

So theres the conflict. how exactly DO i go about maintaining the level of intimacy while dreading the whole "Getting closer" part, and hopefully not actually falling in love with this girl.