[FortyTwoForks]

i concentrate on the plots of movies. seems like i should do something to get to know her better...?

[SLF1452]

Getting the date is harder than being on the date.
If you have a girlfriend you wont need to know what to do on a date, knowing what to do on the date helps you get a girlfriend.

Its nothing special, be a gentleman, be yourself.
A lot of guys dont realize how much it means to a girl to do the easiest little chivalrous things.
Hold the door open for her.
If it seems appropriate, seat her. (Pull her chair out for her and take her coat etc.)
Dont be a dumbass and talk about other women, boring stuff, stuff thats interesting to you but bores her, etc.
Pay for her no matter what she says (at least on the first date)
Walk her to her door, this is important not just b/c its the gentlemanly thing to do but also b/c its more awkward to go for a kiss in a car.


its nothing ridiculous, and just b/c you've never been on a date doesnt mean that you wouldnt know what to do.

Edit:

Originally Posted by Bboy-Trance go to a movie the 1st date 1 she wants to watch not u then ask her were she wants to eat

First, girls like confidence, so dont be asking her everything. They like it when you tell them where you are taking them.
Also, with the movie date sometimes its better to have the movie after the food, b/c otherwise you pick her up, say a couple words, and then watch a 2 hour movie and dont talk at all. So then when it gets time to be dinner, you've spoken 12 words to eachother in about 2 1/2 hrs. Its usually easier to do the movie after the dinner, cuz then you are talked out and you just chill

[SLF1452]

Originally Posted by FortyTwoForks the problem is i never asked girls out. people say its because i fear rejection. ive honestly asked myself that and i dont think that's it.

It is. Even if u think its not, it is.
If you would WANT to go out with a girl, and you DONT ask her, and she's not a friend's ex, or your best friend, or moving soon or something........it's fear of rejection. It's pretty much the only reason.

[hello]

movies are nice and simple. or u cud do like a picnic ( coz girls think its "sweet"). it depends on the type of girl. picnic or moviesif she's like a girly girl and ect. go with wat u think suits her personality.

[FortyTwoForks]

(slf1452) ur probably right.

"whats the worst thing that could happen?"
"she says no"

ugh...

[FreestyleUnltd™]

I wrote a long detailed essay on this when I was Kunoichi Sakura along time ago. Anyway I'll keep it short. Ask out 20 or more girls you see while your out at the mall, movies, chilling etc. Just do it and get used to talking to them and asking them out. You gots nothing to lose. On top of that most girls are actually pretty nice in general so they will be very receptive of you if you approach them right.

Go for it and keep us posted =).

[Transcendent]

Originally Posted by FreestyleUnltd™ when I was Kunoichi Sakura along time ago.

but you're not...she's...wait, what?

[SuAZN]

shes sakura- just changed her name..

[Transcendent]

doesnt look like her

[Transcendent]

the only pic i remember was your avi with that pic of you with the phone. you had like a scowl on your face.

[FreestyleUnltd™]

Social problem........ aint sh*t in my life changed. I really do hate life sometimes....

[Desi Boogie]

End it?

Wait, who said that?

Peace

[jonnyz]

My social problem: I are in love -_-

[Desi Boogie]

With your girl of five years? Or with another girl?

I really don't want to think about love or marriage or moving in or any of that shit. With my girl i just want to have fun, be affectionate and share stuff, i can think about all of that other shit in a year's time or so.

Peace

[jonnyz]

With another girl _-_