The Social Problems Thread - Page 31

Bboy.Maniac · 07-08-2009, 09:18 AM

Alright, now I have a problem.

I'm 16, and if you've read my previous posts, you'll know I'm pretty much a traditionalist. I've dated only twice, both lasted more than a year. About a year and a half back, I broke up with my last girlfriend because she migrated and we knew long distance relationships were hard to keep. It was mutual. No hard feelings, no problems that usually come with breakups. I was lucky that way.

Ever since then, I've been chatting with her via webcam practically everyday, and everything has been going fine. At the beginning of this year, however, her sister (who is two years younger than both of us) has been coming on the cam as well, and online, because her sister (ie my ex) asked me to counsel her on relationships and stuff- she's gotten it rough when she migrated, having about 12 relationships in total, and she's only 14 going on 15. Even more recently, that sister (the younger one, not my ex) has been having her own private conversations with me, and increasingly so. She's matured amazingly quickly, and I'm grateful that I've been of help to her. However, from my separate conversations between the two, they both have assumed that I like the other sister, and they know that the other one likes me back.

In short, both sisters like me. The problem is, I like both of them as well. Next year, my ex is coming back to finish up the last two years of school in the same school as me, fully expecting that we get back together. But I like her younger sister equally, if not more so than her. So now what? :S

Immortal-Technique · 07-08-2009, 06:19 PM

I don't think you have a choice but to get back with your ex, going out with her sister would make things very awkward for all of you.

Also, if you really do like them both equally, i don't really see what the problem is, but I'm sure you meant somthing else ;\

adam-aka-bboy-ace · 07-08-2009, 06:51 PM

1. listen to your dick
2. be smooth and yourself
3. dont make too big of risks

its been working for me for years although you need experience and intelligence to make it work for you!!

but if thats not your style then id recommend not dating eather of them, sure you like them both but there just crushes bc you cant love two people.
if you date one the other will get jealus and talk shit maybe even worse things depending on the girl. just have fun being single intell you grow a crush stronger towards one person.

Bboy-Seckzy · 07-08-2009, 09:54 PM

Originally Posted by adam-aka-bboy-ace

1. listen to your dick

bad idea it would prolly opt for a threesome which will end in something bad or a fight in bed

Alcab-boy · 07-08-2009, 10:14 PM

And great butt sekz. Haha. Just date the one you dated before. Or date neither.

lilrip133 · 07-08-2009, 10:16 PM

Originally Posted by Bboy-Seckzy

bad idea it would prolly opt for a threesome which will end in something bad or a fight in bed

hmm a threesome

completely joking

na but honestly the better idea is most likely to get back with your ex. the only thing i see is trouble dating her sister and i really dont think it could work

Bboy-Seckzy · 07-09-2009, 12:47 AM

lol i agree with alcab and lilrip you should go back with ur ex unlessss her iss is hot ... nvm go with ur ex

adam-aka-bboy-ace · 07-09-2009, 02:32 AM

Originally Posted by Bboy-Seckzy

bad idea it would prolly opt for a threesome which will end in something bad or a fight in bed

the bad ending wouldent effect you if you wernt emotionaly attatched to the girls but in this case he is so it really is a matter of if the girls feel regret after. if they dident you would probably do it again and again but eventually the girls will fall to the mercy of there own emotions and they wont want to do it anymore, teenaged girls always get emotional about sex.

eather whay id pay some emotional punishment for banging two chix at once anyday...

Bboy.Maniac · 07-09-2009, 05:03 AM

Originally Posted by Bboy-Seckzy

lol i agree with alcab and lilrip you should go back with ur ex unlessss her iss is hot ... nvm go with ur ex

haha her sis is smokin' hot. lol. she's so-so, but her sis is amazing. damnit. i do think i like her sis more though. but i guess you guys are right. and for the record, crushes don't last years, i'm just confused, i guess.

Originally Posted by adam-aka-bboy-ace

the bad ending wouldent effect you if you wernt emotionaly attatched to the girls but in this case he is so it really is a matter of if the girls feel regret after. if they dident you would probably do it again and again but eventually the girls will fall to the mercy of there own emotions and they wont want to do it anymore, teenaged girls always get emotional about sex.

eather whay id pay some emotional punishment for banging two chix at once anyday...

meh... i'm not that kinda guy. sorry. abstinence ftw. heh. i doubt i'll get much support on that last point though.

adam-aka-bboy-ace · 07-09-2009, 07:35 PM

Originally Posted by Bboy.Maniac

haha her sis is smokin' hot. lol. she's so-so, but her sis is amazing. damnit. i do think i like her sis more though. but i guess you guys are right. and for the record, crushes don't last years, i'm just confused, i guess.

meh... i'm not that kinda guy. sorry. abstinence ftw. heh. i doubt i'll get much support on that last point though.

yea if your not that kinda guy prolly best not to take my advice at all lol

bboy.sight · 07-13-2009, 11:19 PM

ugh feeling emo, it's seems like all my friends have a best friend or someone who can always make them smile, or just someone in general who they talk about all the time.

I haven't had a best friend since around 6th grade about 5 years ago. When ever I talk with friends they always have to mention their special friend whenever & where ever, be it AIM, myspace bulletin etc

I just get annoyed by all of it seeming like i don't impact anyones life like that...

ok, emo time over

FreestyleUnltd™ · 07-13-2009, 11:22 PM

You teenagers are taking relationships and Girls too seriously these Days

Just get on and call it a Day

kiks · 07-13-2009, 11:24 PM

tru dat girl above me is rite.... after my last relationship i realized that its a waste of time rite now since we are young .... now i mean i still have funn if u catch my drift but no serious relationships for now

i learned my lesson

bboy.sight · 07-13-2009, 11:32 PM

i wasn't talking about relationships, just simple friendships <_<

Bboy.Maniac · 07-14-2009, 05:19 AM

hmm... well let's just say that all my family members (uncles, aunties and the like) have had happily ever afters (we're lucky that way) and half of them have been going out with their wives since junior high - high school. so it's not an alien concept to have a serious relationship from this point for me.

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Bboy.Maniac Living out Hiphop Respect: 2 Posts: 475 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Singapore	07-08-2009, 09:18 AM Alright, now I have a problem. I'm 16, and if you've read my previous posts, you'll know I'm pretty much a traditionalist. I've dated only twice, both lasted more than a year. About a year and a half back, I broke up with my last girlfriend because she migrated and we knew long distance relationships were hard to keep. It was mutual. No hard feelings, no problems that usually come with breakups. I was lucky that way. Ever since then, I've been chatting with her via webcam practically everyday, and everything has been going fine. At the beginning of this year, however, her sister (who is two years younger than both of us) has been coming on the cam as well, and online, because her sister (ie my ex) asked me to counsel her on relationships and stuff- she's gotten it rough when she migrated, having about 12 relationships in total, and she's only 14 going on 15. Even more recently, that sister (the younger one, not my ex) has been having her own private conversations with me, and increasingly so. She's matured amazingly quickly, and I'm grateful that I've been of help to her. However, from my separate conversations between the two, they both have assumed that I like the other sister, and they know that the other one likes me back. In short, both sisters like me. The problem is, I like both of them as well. Next year, my ex is coming back to finish up the last two years of school in the same school as me, fully expecting that we get back together. But I like her younger sister equally, if not more so than her. So now what? :S


Immortal-Technique Member Respect: 1 Posts: 13 Join Date: Mar 2009	07-08-2009, 06:19 PM I don't think you have a choice but to get back with your ex, going out with her sister would make things very awkward for all of you. Also, if you really do like them both equally, i don't really see what the problem is, but I'm sure you meant somthing else ;\


adam-aka-bboy-ace bboy ace Respect: 1.5 Posts: 450 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: omaha	07-08-2009, 06:51 PM 1. listen to your dick 2. be smooth and yourself 3. dont make too big of risks its been working for me for years although you need experience and intelligence to make it work for you!! but if thats not your style then id recommend not dating eather of them, sure you like them both but there just crushes bc you cant love two people. if you date one the other will get jealus and talk shit maybe even worse things depending on the girl. just have fun being single intell you grow a crush stronger towards one person.
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Alcab-boy Moderator Respect: 20 Posts: 1,717 Join Date: May 2008	07-08-2009, 10:14 PM And great butt sekz. Haha. Just date the one you dated before. Or date neither.
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Bboy-Seckzy BBOY OR DIE! Respect: 2.5 Posts: 436 Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Angeles	07-09-2009, 12:47 AM lol i agree with alcab and lilrip you should go back with ur ex unlessss her iss is hot ... nvm go with ur ex
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bboy.sight Sight Respect: 3 Posts: 266 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Murrieta	07-13-2009, 11:19 PM ugh feeling emo, it's seems like all my friends have a best friend or someone who can always make them smile, or just someone in general who they talk about all the time. I haven't had a best friend since around 6th grade about 5 years ago. When ever I talk with friends they always have to mention their special friend whenever & where ever, be it AIM, myspace bulletin etc I just get annoyed by all of it seeming like i don't impact anyones life like that... ok, emo time over
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FreestyleUnltd™ Kunoichi Valley Girl Respect: 5.5 Posts: 1,149 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Somerset Mall, wish I was in Cali	07-13-2009, 11:22 PM You teenagers are taking relationships and Girls too seriously these Days Just get on and call it a Day
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kiks loves black people Respect: 3 Posts: 919 Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: greenville	07-13-2009, 11:24 PM tru dat girl above me is rite.... after my last relationship i realized that its a waste of time rite now since we are young .... now i mean i still have funn if u catch my drift but no serious relationships for now i learned my lesson
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bboy.sight Sight Respect: 3 Posts: 266 Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Murrieta	07-13-2009, 11:32 PM i wasn't talking about relationships, just simple friendships <_<
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Bboy.Maniac Living out Hiphop Respect: 2 Posts: 475 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Singapore	07-14-2009, 05:19 AM hmm... well let's just say that all my family members (uncles, aunties and the like) have had happily ever afters (we're lucky that way) and half of them have been going out with their wives since junior high - high school. so it's not an alien concept to have a serious relationship from this point for me.