[snoopy8]

Something I would appreciate is that if you posted IN THE RIGHT PLACE!!! The Social Problems Thread

[Efesyric]

Ok I'm in a bind here
It was 2 days before we moved[ which was last tuesday] and I saw an old friend
She happened to be my close friend awhile back
we were so close that we use to kiss alot and do other stuff
Now at this point she has a girlfriend [ yes she's bi ]
since we haven't really talked since the last skool year started [ just last august ]
I invited her in just to hang out. Now after a few minutes I let her use my labtop.
She shows me a message saying she'll kiss before she leaves the house and tells me to forget about it and act like it never happened. Next thing ya know a minutes later we're making out and doing other inaprpriate things all over the dining room. Now I kept asking her if she's sure she wants to do this and I even stopped one good time. So I get one last kiss at 4:36 exactly
she was at my house since 2:40! Now I think her girlfriend found out.
I'm not sure how cause we were inside my house and now the girl I was kissin
isn't talking to me.
Is this my fault?
Or did I do something wrong?
Can a female tell something I should know about the female mind cause im really confused lol

[Quann]

Yes
Wait I'm sorry. im not sure what the question is >.>

[Efesyric]

I'm asking is it my fault shes mad and her girl friend broke up with her

[pXndXmic]

my opinion.
no it wasnt your fault and you did nothing wrong. especially since you even stopped to ask if she wanted to go through with it. also if her girlfriend found out its because she told her. unless someone was spying on you which i doubt.

[Efesyric]

maybe she told one of her friends and they told her idk i just know they broke up
maybe it was something else...the thing is we live right beside each other
her girlfriend and me

[Efesyric]

srry bout not posting in the right place
i didn't know lol
again srry

[Bboy-Seckzy]

post a vid maybe that will help LMAO

[Bboy.Maniac]

Originally Posted by Bboy-Seckzy post a vid maybe that will help LMAO

u fag

Originally Posted by Efesyric Ok I'm in a bind here It was 2 days before we moved[ which was last tuesday] and I saw an old friend She happened to be my close friend awhile back we were so close that we use to kiss alot and do other stuff Now at this point she has a girlfriend [ yes she's bi ] since we haven't really talked since the last skool year started [ just last august ] I invited her in just to hang out. Now after a few minutes I let her use my labtop. She shows me a message saying she'll kiss before she leaves the house and tells me to forget about it and act like it never happened. Next thing ya know a minutes later we're making out and doing other inaprpriate things all over the dining room. Now I kept asking her if she's sure she wants to do this and I even stopped one good time. So I get one last kiss at 4:36 exactly she was at my house since 2:40! Now I think her girlfriend found out. I'm not sure how cause we were inside my house and now the girl I was kissin isn't talking to me. Is this my fault? Or did I do something wrong? Can a female tell something I should know about the female mind cause im really confused lol

i don't think there are many bi girls on bboy.org. but personally, i don't think it's all your fault, but you shouldn't have done it at all when you knew she had a girlfriend. From personal experience (though it may not be completely accurate), a lot of people, not just girls, get caught up in the moment and do stuff they'll regret later. it's pretty much up to you, since you actually stopped, to get out of the situation. seeing as you do like her, you shoulda stopped because you knew that she'd regret it later, and why put her through that if you're actually interested in her being happy?

as for why she's avoiding you and how here gf found out, she may or may not have told her gf, i don't know. but she's probably avoiding you out of embarrassment or regret, or both. that's my answer for you. if you want to get out of it, try talking to her. if she doesn't answer you, wait, but don't be pushy. It doesn't help your stand.

How old are you anyway? Just curious.

[Justplay]

ok i got a problem.
so i really like this girl and we text alot and talk to each other alot. we laugh and play around and everythings cool. so i was going to six flags to see fireworks and she wanted to tag along so she did and we had a blast. the thing is she has a boyfriend but there relationship isnt that great and hes jealous of her talking to any one but him. He went to Korea and tahts when we started hanging out. and the boyfriend is my best friend.. i dont wanna be the bad guy and take her but i just cant stop thinking about her. i dont know what to do.

[Alcab-boy]

Simple, don't. Be respectful to your friend's girl.

[Bboy-Seckzy]

Originally Posted by Bboy.Maniac u fag

i was joking plus im homophobic (however its spelled) for some reason plus i like girls

[Bboy-Seckzy]

Originally Posted by Justplay ok i got a problem. so i really like this girl and we text alot and talk to each other alot. we laugh and play around and everythings cool. so i was going to six flags to see fireworks and she wanted to tag along so she did and we had a blast. the thing is she has a boyfriend but there relationship isnt that great and hes jealous of her talking to any one but him. He went to Korea and tahts when we started hanging out. and the boyfriend is my best friend.. i dont wanna be the bad guy and take her but i just cant stop thinking about her. i dont know what to do.

think: what do you value the most - your friendship or the girl

[Bboy.Maniac]

Originally Posted by Bboy-Seckzy i was joking plus im homophobic (however its spelled) for some reason plus i like girls

I know i was joking too

Originally Posted by Justplay ok i got a problem. so i really like this girl and we text alot and talk to each other alot. we laugh and play around and everythings cool. so i was going to six flags to see fireworks and she wanted to tag along so she did and we had a blast. the thing is she has a boyfriend but there relationship isnt that great and hes jealous of her talking to any one but him. He went to Korea and tahts when we started hanging out. and the boyfriend is my best friend.. i dont wanna be the bad guy and take her but i just cant stop thinking about her. i dont know what to do.

If you think they're going to break up, wait for it, don't rush. Talk to the guy too. It can't hurt, seeing as he's your best friend. But DON'T do anything to her. If you have the sense to ask about this issue, then have the sense to not do anything you'd regret later.

[Bboy-Seckzy]

i agree with maniac ^^^