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03-21-2009, 02:29 AM

oho, well played. but just cause she is hanging out with that guy doesn't mean she likes him you may just be overthinking things a bit, not every girl I hang out with I like.

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03-21-2009, 02:29 AM

xD Hahaha.

What the fook?
 

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03-21-2009, 03:43 AM

Originally Posted by Murph View Post
Just whip it out dude. You'll be good to go.



LOL i first read that... LOLOLOL
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03-21-2009, 03:46 AM

-after reading the posts-

theres always more.
i mean God made a special someone for each and everyone of us and he knows how were gonna get to her/him

so dont worry man.
and BE CONFIDENT
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03-21-2009, 04:35 AM

Originally Posted by b.b.o.y. View Post
LOL i first read that... LOLOLOL
haha
ZOMG YOU STOLE MY POST =(

On topic... I find that i'm all womens 'gay friend' =P some even ask me if i want to be theirs... i dont know whether to be honoured(cause im not actually gay...) of embarrased.
 

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03-21-2009, 09:39 AM

be embarrased

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03-21-2009, 10:38 AM

hey hey man

girls like a guy thts confident but not cocky. there has to be a balance. just go up 2 her and talk to her. even if it is a simple 'hey, watsup?" tht shows tht u want to get to know her.

also, im pretty sure i don't have to mention this but.....hygiene/cleanliness = good lol.

and just be relaxed around her. if u c her in the halls just wave at her, or just go up to her and say hey, and ask wat she's up 2.

girls like to know tht ppl care about them.. am i correct here emagination?? =P

good luck man

oh and if all else fails

whip it out and you'll be good

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03-21-2009, 10:59 AM

Multi, i take it u started bboying cause u thought it was cool and it would build your confidence every so often? treat it like that then. If you think you are confident with ur dancing right now then i don't see why anything should stop you.

build it from the bottom up. online people have a different persona (it happens man) so even if you start from the very beginning again with her it might help

just my 2 cents

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03-21-2009, 11:20 AM

Ey'o man for the future, you gotta remember it's all about confidence man. I normally don't have this problem you are having, but for once in my life, i do... Normally i'll just go up and say hi to a girl like nothing just start making her laugh and making her feel a little special, but not too special and she will come back for sure. I used to be a pretty shy guy too though, just get over it dude you can do it. But im having this problem too so it happens to the best of us bro.

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03-21-2009, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by bboychamploo View Post
OMFG I ROFL'D!!

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03-21-2009, 11:37 AM

Originally Posted by Murph View Post
Just whip it out dude. You'll be good to go.
LMAO...omg..times i have wanted to do that...LOL...

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03-21-2009, 11:47 AM

Everyone talks about flirting like its the BEST way to get a girl. i dont think getting a girl should be as complicated as flirting seems, so just BE NICE.

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03-21-2009, 01:32 PM

Being friendly/nice is the best way to get people to talk to you. I like talking to guys who seem open and friendly (nothing to do with being attractive or "smooth" or whatever).

And always be respectful. Gentlemen are hard to come by these days.

Laughing is good. If you are silly and goofy naturally, be that person. If not, don't be afraid to laugh if the chance comes. Being comfortable in your own skin enough to laugh at yourself is good. Also, just being comfortable in your own skin in general. Don't try to be someone else. Like mom said, ::mom voice:: "Honey, just be yourself." haha (for real though).

If you need ice breakers...well compliments are always nice. For instance... Standing around at a jam you notice a bgirl with awesome kicks.. "Hey, I like your shoes" Or at a practice..."Whatcha workin on today?" Use your surroundings to your advantage so you can talk about something you both know about. Don't overthink stuff. It's very simple.
 

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Originally Posted by Fidget View Post
Being friendly/nice is the best way to get people to talk to you. I like talking to guys who seem open and friendly (nothing to do with being attractive or "smooth" or whatever).

And always be respectful. Gentlemen are hard to come by these days.

Laughing is good. If you are silly and goofy naturally, be that person. If not, don't be afraid to laugh if the chance comes. Being comfortable in your own skin enough to laugh at yourself is good. Also, just being comfortable in your own skin in general. Don't try to be someone else. Like mom said, ::mom voice:: "Honey, just be yourself." haha (for real though).

If you need ice breakers...well compliments are always nice. For instance... Standing around at a jam you notice a bgirl with awesome kicks.. "Hey, I like your shoes" Or at a practice..."Whatcha workin on today?" Use your surroundings to your advantage so you can talk about something you both know about. Don't overthink stuff. It's very simple.

AGREED. And another thing, sometimes people try to do things
like laugh, not because they wanted to, but because they want to
keep people interested in talking to them and things like that.
She said it clearly by pretty much stating that you really do just need
to be comfortable with who YOU are before you can accommodate
someone else. GL

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