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04-15-2005, 10:20 PM
I just barely figured out that girls dont like nice guys... err.. they dont like them in the way the nice guys would like to be liked (dunno if that makes sense).
I figured out you just be nice after you rip their guts out... like if a girl drops her binder and papers, you tease her about it, but you help pick them up...
I'm not too bright on how to get girls and I was wondering if I got the right idea.
I noticed with my old "niceguy" thing going, girls wouldnt ask me for anything... now with what I do girls are always asking me for cash and to use my jacket and pieces of gum and such...
I could be wrong all together and have the wrong idea, but yes Im a little pussy whipped wuss waterboy needing some help with the ladies...
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04-15-2005, 11:09 PM
huh? that made no sense to me, sorry. im a nice guy, and i still have my friends that are girls asking me for a few bucks for food now and then.
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04-16-2005, 12:30 AM
how old r u? soon enough girls will fall for the nice guy, and you'll be glad you're the nice one and not the jerk..
remember though
a girl doesnt want a guy who will hold the door for her, but not the man behind her.
acute kindness is very bad
its more attractive at first, to get a bad boy, an u'll see all the girls hangin out with the jerks, but soon enough, the girl will get sick of the jerk
they do notice if u look them in the eye and not the boobs, and they appreciate stuff like that. i duno why youd wana ditch chivalry
if u wana look bad, but stay chivalrous, then iduno what to do
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04-16-2005, 12:40 AM
Yea, just tease em a lot....it aint being a jerk, it is called flirting btw. You aint gotta open the door for em, or anything like that, because chivalry is dead..
As for buying her stuff steer clear of that til you are in a relationship. Even then, it aint ya duty to buy her stuff, man and woman are created equally.
Dont tell her you like her, show her. For example, dont say I think I might like you, instead go in for the kiss.... Dont say how much you love her until she says it also...
PM any questions cuz i dont really check this board
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04-16-2005, 12:47 AM
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Originally posted by MuffinJuice
how old r u? soon enough girls will fall for the nice guy, and you'll be glad you're the nice one and not the jerk..
remember though
a girl doesnt want a guy who will hold the door for her, but not the man behind her.
acute kindness is very bad
its more attractive at first, to get a bad boy, an u'll see all the girls hangin out with the jerks, but soon enough, the girl will get sick of the jerk
they do notice if u look them in the eye and not the boobs, and they appreciate stuff like that. i duno why youd wana ditch chivalry
if u wana look bad, but stay chivalrous, then iduno what to do
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yea i'd go with this advice.....if you are like 35
Girls get married to the bad guy, and then after a couple years of marriage, they realise they want a nice guy. But by then, nice guys are misogynistic and tired.
Chivalry gets you nowhere by today's standards, cuz girls either come to expect it, and when you dont do it you are an animal, or are on this independent "Im too good for that" tip. |
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04-16-2005, 01:31 AM
i am with you kinda man. girls take advantage of the nice guy. but i won't change for anyone. if you need to change your instintual ways for a girl it won't work out. trust me. just be you. thats the best advice i can give
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04-16-2005, 03:17 AM
theres a difference between a nice guy and a fucking pussy, alot of nice guys are straight out pussies, a let themselves get ran over, nice guys get girls trust me, as long as your not a straight out pussy, you dont have to be an asshole, but there is a difference, girls like guys, like to be equals, when ur a guy and ur soo nice to a girl she might not feel the say way to u, shes gonna see u as lower than her, and girls like guys that they feel safe with, that can hold their own ground, which alot of pussy guys cant do, but nice guys can,
dont get little bitches and nice guys mixed up
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04-16-2005, 03:22 AM
uh oh, big pimpin, you got girls askin you for a piece of gum, next there gonna be askin you for free sex..........or not.
Why would you wanna girl to ask you for money anyways.
If you really wanna ditch the whole "nice guy" thing, eat a baby. Its always worked for me.
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04-16-2005, 05:56 AM
Thanks for your replies and all. Ya I guess I didnt really have a line between nice guy and wuss.
Ok I guess a different question I have now is this. The fact that I bboy turns a lot of girls on. The fact that I'm not experienced in picking-up girls, talking to them, or anything else... really ruins the moment. If you're wondering, Im posting this online here because I'm not gonna go up to my friends and ask them how they got their stuff down.
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04-16-2005, 10:33 AM
dude.. girls aren't aliens or anything.
from a crude male outlook, the womenfolk are impossible to understand--- when they say lets not get eachother anything for christmas, boy that means YOU FREAKIN GET HER SOMETHING. its totally counter intuitive. it makes no sense to guys.
but you're not on that emotional level with these girls are you.
you kinda stated your own solution in your post. "im not experienced"
experience will make you more comfortable with those wily womenfolk. but first you have to ditch the idea that they are something to make you nervous.
if you continue to crash and burn, (you're still nervous even tho you remembered **muffinjuice told me just to chill and be normal**) just say out loud to the girl. look, i know you're not an alien, but you still freak me out.
no dont say that. theres no trick or tips for them.
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04-16-2005, 11:07 AM
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a girl doesnt want a guy who will hold the door for her, but not the man behind her.
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umm...what exactly does this mean?? i read it a couple times but i don't get it.
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04-16-2005, 11:14 AM
is wane braddy gonna have ta smack a hoe?
fool got big faces like mount rushmore
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04-16-2005, 04:22 PM
compliments to Jazzy Jeff,
just say "yo baby, lets grab some barbeque and get busy!"
Should work every time.
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04-16-2005, 04:36 PM
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umm...what exactly does this mean?? i read it a couple times but i don't get it.
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This is my breakdown of what I believe might go on in the mind of a female in this situation - science cannot verify this information:
the guy who holds the door is smarmy. Chances are he just wants to use it as an "intro" to get a shag.
Female - "hmmm, cute, but way too smarmy, will probably try and shag my best friend too"
the guy who holds the door out of kindness is just a nice guy, period. This is the guy that will hold the door for the guy behind as well. "hmmm that guy was sweet"
u see? its SO true
my few tips:
Don't look a girl up and down like she's already naked.
Outwile them and they'll be impressed.
and remember - girls notice EVERYTHING and make it mean ANYTHING.
you have been warned. Wonderful, mysterious creatures. Need a good slap sometimes though......
joke. 
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04-16-2005, 11:22 PM
your answer is only a click away....
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