physci

electron · **physci -** 03-19-2004, 01:23 AM

i hate being the kind of person who would do this
but for once, i'm GOING to be the kind of person who does this

physci put up a post in the bgirl forum asking us if we wanted to have hardcore internet sex with him.
Once and for all, this is INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR , not just for this site, but in general. And i'm not taking it lightly.

I don't know if any of you know him personally, i see he's posted up in popping and also in freestyle forum, but please convey to him that this isn't appreciated by any of us bgirls, and i'd hope not by you bboys either.

JOking about sex is fine, i don't care about crude language, i'm pretty chill when it comes to what i allow on the boards. But i draw the line at blatantly offensive proposals specifially directed to any and all bgirls. That is NOT okay.

thanks for hearing me out

electron

duble_a · 03-19-2004, 01:32 AM

word electron. all us bboys gotta keep it in our pants boys, at least while in this forum.

cybering is really sick...

electron · 03-19-2004, 01:36 AM

i actually think that everything has it's place
i wouldn't go so far as to say that cybering is sick- enough people do it that it's apparantly become quite legit.

but that's beside the point. IT's completely unacceptable to solicit it from the girls on the bgirl forum. That's not the way you treat people. We're here to talk breaking and chill with other bboys and bgirls. If anybody on this site wants to get off, they can go plenty other places on the internet to find that and so they should. If they go on trying to find it here, i'll ban whoever does that without a second thought.

but thanks for the backup - i appreciate it

www.bboy.org/ · 03-19-2004, 03:53 AM

I completely agree with electron. Im pretty laid back myself when it comes down to that sort of stuff. I was like chill out its just words. Im not hurting anyone by doing it. but I have learnt that some people do take offence to some of the things i find funny or things i enjoy. There is a time and a place for everything. Some people may find it offencive others may not.

And this forum is not the place. there are quite a few young people who come to these forums. anyone can view the posts made here. Posts such as that are very inappropriate.

I would like to see action taken on anyone making those kinds of posts. Its just not the place, and some people may find it disrespectful and offencive. Im not saying everyone does just some people but we have to account for everyone.

You do what you gotta do electron you got my full support.

mothafunky · 03-19-2004, 04:50 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by electron
i actually think that everything has it's place
i wouldn't go so far as to say that cybering is sick- enough people do it that it's apparantly become quite legit.

first of all, yeah, it's def. not cool for physci to do that. but this quote doesn't make sense to me-he said it was sick, that's his opinion. legitimacy has nothing to do with it really. also, i don't think something becomes legitimate because a lot of people do it-during the holocaust a lot of people killed jews, but it definitely wasn't legitimate. there is enough food to feed the population of the world, but it is legitimately purchased-and wasted-by people who generally don't think twice about how much they waste and what it could have done for someone. i think that's sick. my piece anyway. but hey, this thread wasn't made for that topic, so hey, that was real messed up and crappy for physci to do.

Anubis2002 · 03-19-2004, 11:20 AM

when he said cybering was sick, electrons point was...thats not what she was trying to get at. sick or not is opinion, she wasnt going as far as to label it, but she was letting people know THAT kinda behavior on here isnt wanted or needed.

she wasnt saying its legit so its okay...she was saying that it simply wasnt wat she meant, or wasnt going there. she was focused upon the one kid n the situation, not taking on cybering as a whole

RapmastaF-fresh · 03-19-2004, 07:27 PM

Your a Mod, can't you kick him out?

-Your Friendly Neighborhood Rapmasta

BboyBrownKid · 03-19-2004, 07:54 PM

thats one of the main reasons i barely EVER go into the bgirl forum........

i consider it to b their space... ...

the only time i post there is when the thread had something that was pretty much open to both genders..... but when it comes to things that are directed more towards bgirls... i stay away....

RapmastaF-fresh · 03-19-2004, 08:01 PM

I post there from time to time, when it's an appropiate thread, just to get to know some of the cool B-girls.

-Your Friendly Neighborhood Rapmasta

electron · 09:19 PM

okay
point by point

i AM a mod, and yes, i CAN kick him out - apparantly i still have banning powers and i've used them a total of ONCE in my "bboy.org moderator career"
i don't like punishing people like some big wrathful hand of god. I"m quite upset with physci but he's posted, like , 4 times and when people first come up in here, they're newbs and they don;t have a good idea of who is who and what works and what doesn't.

I checked out his posts- apparantly he also tried freestyling and some popping so he's enough of a bboy that he has a place here. One severe insult does not warrant permanent banishment, in my opinion, but it does warrant a loud warning from a rather pissed off bgirl.

as far as anybody else posting up in bgirl forum - we love to have guys come chill with us, it's super fun
half the time, at least 50% of the posts are guys posting and asking us about the girlst they like, which is great because it makes you think a lot about human nature and also lets us get to know one another pretty well. We've got an update thread that is pretty much for us old head bgirls but its not ILLEGAL to post on there or anything. SO long as you can deal with girl talk and dont get squeamish, come on by, it's not all that bad you know and we're a pretty cool bunch of girls.

and yeah, anubis read me right
i'm witholding judgement on the cyber sex thing, that's not the issue here and i don't intend to MAKE it the issue.

What pissed me off was the open solicitaion of it on THIS forum to OUR bgirls. Not appropriate. This is an all ages site for bgirls and bboys.

Period.

Ninja_Bboy[IUC] · 03-19-2004, 09:28 PM

i agree with electron this is a bboy site not a place to hook up with people so u can get freaky -deaky with the webcam. if he does it again then use ur super mod powers on his ass lol. if not then dont lose too much sleep over it us guys are horn dogs sometimes we cant help it.
but again not on this forum cos i mean there are kids who read these boards we dont want them being asked to cyber by other members :s

theb · 03-20-2004, 02:11 AM

id say juss PM him and tell him that that shit hes doin is wrong, and tell warn him that next time he does that or any other innapropiate ish he'll be banned...period"."

Mowicz · 03-20-2004, 07:01 PM

Looks like he took the word popping a little too literally...

What I wanted to say has been said....kind've annoying actually, cuz I wanted to blow off a little steam with my little rant....aw well. Just pisses me off, because it's guys like that that give bboys the whole sexist image....if he was e'en a bboy.

Peace.

RapmastaF-fresh · 03-20-2004, 07:20 PM

I think he had rements of b-boying in him, but lacked much judgment about it, and about this site. Could get him into trouble, perhaps he has learned his lesson. Keep us updated Electron.

-Your Friendly Neighborhood Rapmasta

electron · 03-20-2004, 11:26 PM

yeah, i pm'd him straight away and deleted the post off the forum so it didn't get any of my girls upset ( protective mamma i am )

i wanted to post it up because i thought it best to let you know it happened... it's not the first time we've had some assholes up in there and it'd beena long while since any of that went down

just wanted to make sure i cut off the snake's head, not just scared it away you know

thanks for the support guys