[musikphr34k]

hey kid..everybody got probs in deir life buh dey alwayz come thru it.. and yo do da same.. im sorri bout wuh happ to u n yo grl buh face it, she aint de only grl in da world.. maybe shes missin outt on a great bboy like u.. her loss.. yo yung which meanz u still got lot mo and prolly betta grlz to meet.. as fo u and yo mother.. shes yo family.. i kno i aint kno de situation buh talk it out wit her.. eventually shell understand..and lastly.. bout moving.. think of it az moving to a better life, meetin new pplz is scary buh phun at de same time.. be strong buddy
and to answer yo question, u can do lotta thingz to overcome yo sadness..
buh wuh works fo meeh is exercising.. i do boxing so dat helps lol.. exercising keepz yo mind off of thingz.. also.. try to git togither wit yo homiez.. and hav a guyz nite outt.. do wuhever guyz do wen dey together..
another solution is to lit it out to somebody u trust.. hav em listen to u.. havin somewun listenin to u can make u de happiest person in de world.. i kno it soundz phunny buh its tru ;]

[demonhand]

First I want to say that 14 is such a young age, you'll have more than enough chances for friends, romance, and whatever you want, even if you move.

Don't sleep too much. You should rather be doing something active and contructive (it's easy to over-sleep when you're depressed).

Haha I find comparing myself to starving African children not as good of a coping strategy as you might think. Yea, they have more serious problems than probably most of the world, but you shouldn't belittle your own troubles; they are just as real and important to you as other peoples' troubles.

tl;dr - You want to reduce stress but still keep an active, balanced lifestyle: music, exercise, enough sleep (not too much), fun, etc.

[Syrenz]

Originally Posted by demonhand Haha I find myself starving African children not as good of a coping strategy as you might think. .

I first read it like that^ lol

[Bboy-Supreme]

I think what u'r finding just now is that because all this has happened you think your life is fucked...UNTRUE. 14 is still pretty young bro, I'm 17 and only had 1 girlfriend. Why? I chose to, for my own benefit, so I ain't fucked around.

What I do when i'm sad is either bboy, spend some time with my friends or listen 2 music. That way you're letting out emotions doesn't matter what u do. You need to do something that will take your mind off the things that are happening in the world just now. I just like to relax and talk 2 my friends about my problems and they will understand. But you got us so it's all gravy

[Murph]

Hah. Just wait another 5-10 years and life will be so much more difficult. Your look back and wish all you had to worry about was making new friends.

As far was what I do when Im sad? Binge on coke and take my rage out on a hooker.

[lilrip133]

when i get really down sometimes my favorite thing to do is run, really really really long runs. it gives you time to think and really really clears your head, then the endorphins leave you feeling better when you're done.

[crowd_pleaser]

sex. it's a very effective anti-depressant.

[bboybrake]

Thanks everyone!!...
Running is a good option!!

hehe, but sex is the best!!! LOL

jk, thanks

[demonhand]

Originally Posted by bboybrake Thanks everyone!!... Running is a good option!! hehe, but sex is the best!!! LOL jk, thanks

Please, bitch, I don't wanna see another thread a couple weeks later titled "Whot do you do when you got your girlfriend preggers."

But I kid... or do I? Um... get better!

[bboyliukang]

dude sorry to hear this
i'm a friend ya could talk to
but when i'm sad
i bboy
also work on music
and draw sometimes
i know some of things ya feeling
hard to make new friends
try picking up and other hobbie like
drawing or writing music

[str33twalker]

i go to sleep

[BbOyJeOpArDy]

Originally Posted by musikphr34k hey kid..everybody got probs in deir life ...

like spelling & grammar problems

[VTJimmy]

Moving isn't so bad, I've switched schools so many times when I was younger. There's always that group of people that you will click with eventually in different schools. As of your relationship, did you think you were going to marry her? Realistically, there are a bunch of different girls out there , + you asked what to do half the responses will probably be to bboy when your sad since it is a bboy forum.

[CzY.-]

go out and destroy shit, in a graffiti sense. Thats what I do, its like leaving your sadness behind on a wall.

[CzY.-]

go out and destroy shit, in a graffiti sense. Thats what I do, its like leaving your sadness behind on a wall.