[BGirl_Versatile]

i was just wondering what you guys think about it. do you think it's okay or do you think it's wrong? cuz i like this guy who's 17 and im 14, honestly i don't see a difference but some peole have said something about it to me. what do you guys think?

[Reflexion]

other than the fact that it may be illegal, i'd say it's fine. Girls are notoriously more mature than most guys, as is evidenced by the overwhelming number of younger girls that date and have a relationship with older guys.

it's happened throughout history and i don't really expect girls to date guys their own age because most of them are immature anyway. Age is really just symbollic of how mature you're supposed to be. I'd guess that most younger girls who date older guys are at the same 'age' in maturity anyway (and i'd assume the same for this case).


Only bad thing is that cases like this further cement the stereotype that all guys are more immature than girls and that shit makes it a bitch for guys like me to date those older girls! = \

i'm 21 in june and my girl just turned 18 so thats a similar age difference to yours so i say go for it.

[Vice President]

i'll just let you know that when he's out of high school, you're relationship isn't gonna work. there's nothing wrong with age difference, it's just you guys would be in different stages of your life. you need togetherness. but then again, i'm not an advocate of highschool relationships.

[Swiper]

I dont like this girls and guys maturity thing.

It all cmoes down to the individual.

Anyway, maturity I think is mainly based on someones morals and beliefs.

People think guys are immature simply because they laugh and stuffup, not true.

[iraqebboy]

just go and do what u want

[flobotopics]

ahhhhhhhhh i got so many perverted jokes to say right now. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh i'll be good.


but yeah as long as its not like drastic. like 25 and 15. but as ya get older it don't matter. like 35 and 30 isn't bad. its all weird when ya younger though. but if ya kool wit it and he is, and the law of the state is then you are kool.

[missmiyouko]

to me..age is just a number we live by....and people make such a big difference out of it...meant for like relationships...
i'm not saying like...oh you should just date a random girl who's 30 yrs younger but...it's better when you're older...lol
iuno...just hate it when people make a big fuss about it...after all it is numbers.

[*~Starr~*]

im 16 and my boyfriend is 19, anyways isint the law like it's illegal if the difference is more than 5 years??

[missmiyouko]

lol...no

anyone who's over 18..dating someone younger than 18 is considered sexual assult wheather you both like....don't care lol

[dr_p0ta0head]

my girl is 4 years younger than i am, but see we didnt know that when we hooked, we were friends but we just assume we were closer...but nows it like 15months and we haven even had a fight or anything and i dont know...its a people thing, lol...like the man says...age aint nothing but a number....

[BGiRL envy]

if ya'll get along then go for it
if your parents are cool with it, then go for it
but just watch out and make sure you can
take care of yourself. make sure you let ur friends
know about the relationship or something
because guys will be guys sometimes... no matter the age

but word.
holla.

[Chrno]

an adult dating a minor is most of the time perfectly legal.it's just sex that's not.

Originally posted by missmiyouko
lol...no

anyone who's over 18..dating someone younger than 18 is considered sexual assult wheather you both like....don't care lol

dang y'all peeps have some fucked up laws, since when is it illegal for peeps of any age to date each other? i can understand age of consent laws which can hinder how far a relationship can go, but damn, restricting ages on relationship? 'n there i was thinkin nazi's werent really in power anywhere since the 40's......

[ConceivedInHell]

big ones are disturbing unless the couple are both over 20(sorry for the bad grammar), but sometimes, u know that the guy is just after some fresh *ahem*, and thats when its wrong...