[bboyfantasy]

yo everybody, haven't been on here fo so long..yeesh i miss this place..anyways

there's a few girls i like at school...theres 2 of'em but one more so than the other cause i like her more and we talk more...this one is more of the "popular" girls or whatever you wish to call it, she's cool and pretty good lookin. But the trouble is, there's 2 guys i know that like her, one's a grade 10 and the other's a grade 9..i'm in grade 9 so is she. But she's white or french or whatever she said i just can't remember:P she's one of those girls who like white guys mostly, considering I'm chinese but i'm twinked out like mad crazy. She's really nice and all that but I just dont' think i have a chance cause there's 2 other guys who like her like i said, one's a white guy, other is mixed(chinese and portugese). The mixed guy really likes her apparently but she said they're only friends and whatever, so ya know, maybe that opens up a slot. The other guy, iono, he flirts with her and shit and i think he knows that i kinda like her. We're friends cause we do some bmxing shit and whatever. She said today that she didn't used to like me at all whatsoever last year cause I fell in "love" with her friend and I guess she was badmouthin me and shit so she was like "woah what a creep" and all that, but I've gotten to know her n stuff and we seem pretty good, except she probably doesn't see me as a boyfriend kinda guy.

On the other hand, tere's this other girl who's like, VERY pretty. We've talked a lot on the phone about her probs and about her boyfriend's and stuff, but I wonder if she ever thought of me as possibly being her bf. I'd lkie to..considering i've never had a gf before (i'm 14..life sucks hwen you're this old and chinese). We've talked so much and stuff but she only seems to like white guys..like most girls ya know? what else has changed in the past 10 years? It's a buncha bs here cause there's not really a chance that i'll be able to go for her. She's had depression problems and stuff and I've tried to help her through it, she said it's like clinical depression or somethin like that..in her blood? I told her a number of possibilities that it could be, mom...not enough love or something cause she said she always has fights with her mom and shit...or taht it could be she hasn't found somebody taht can truly make her happy...and I'm willing to do that if she'd let me.


so...sorry for goin on and on and crap but what do you guys think?.....should i go for any of them?

[Phetchamphone]

Um... I'm 14 and I say.. you sound pretty desperate. Yup. You're not too old to not have a gf by now, like you said. You're freakin 14. If the first one already said she only liked you as a friend, then she doesn't want you as a BF... (obviously) and the other girl.. (Whys all the hot chics have to have all these problems..) you might have a chance, depending on her. Don't give up on 'em though. But don't act like you really want em either. If they really want it, they'll pretty much go to you.

[bboyfantasy]

Yeah that's true....but what if they don't WANT it like desperately...they just...kind of want it..how would I go about it?

[Phetchamphone]

So make them want you. Don't go too out of the way to the point where you're not yourself anymore though.

[Undgrnd]

this is bboyfantasy..bro's account ...too lazy to sign out sign in type thing..lol..

yeah thats true..but how would i go about that? "making them want me" type of thign?

[gunman]

i think... you should, stop acting like your problems are serious and shove them up your ass

[Undgrnd]

wow somebodys a grouchy

geez calm down, if you dont like what the topic was about then why did you even read it?

whats up YOUR ass you loser?

[Phetchamphone]

Gunman has his own opinions, and in my opinion you are kind of takig this a little overboard, but you don't need to diss on his ass, gunman. :P Everyones different and needs help at one point or another.. You'll evetually learn over time with experience.
Just talk to 'em more.

Patience. :]

[Pop N Jay]

stuff like this always seems so major at the time, and u'll look back and think of how stupid it was.

either stop thinking about it and just do it or accept the fact that it's not gonna happen. if you really want something, you'll pursue it. simple as that. i'm 100% sure u didn't need me to tell you that.

[bboyfantasy]

lol. Maybe you did and maybe you didn't....

but yeah i think you're right there.

[gunman]

i'm sorry i a poo head, i'm a totaly poo head

[Phetchamphone]

Heh heh heh... good job everyone...

[bboyfantasy]

yup... no doubt about it

[Tha DarkDragon]

dude.... don't matta ya chink cuz im chink... so stop sayin it like its a bad thing. also ya prob not all tat big.. i mean just let time tell aight? also another thing i like 2 point out... this is a BGURL forum not a forum where u can ask ppl ya probs. Do tat on da general discussion board not here (srry if I sound rude jsut tryin 2 make its organize and shiat) so yea

also da grl prob .. like i said let time tell, canlt force a grl 2 like ya.. if they like ya, they like ya tat all 2 to it... just let time do its thang ..
peace and good luck w/ it

[Phetchamphone]

You're late on the reply but just let him do what he wants. If he wants to post in the Bgirl section, he'll post in the Bgirl section.

(Learn to spell and check your English/grammar...)