B Girls i need your help!!!!

D.J. Scrit · 11:25 PM

I have a huge crush on this girl but i dont know how to talk to her.
Every time i see her i turn into a bowl of mush,it doesnt happen when im with other girls, only with her. Can yall help me quit being so shy to her. Since yall are girls i think yall would help me alot. Thanx.

bgirl shawtee · 11-25-2003, 02:30 PM

put it in mind.. if u dont go and talk to her now... then theres a chance someone else will.. rite?.. so attempt to approach her.. easier said then done.. but u never no if u dont try.. which u will!~.. since u like her sooooo much.... but if u cant.. attempt to do it another way.. be creative.. =] best of luck to ya!

tinyD · **justdo it -** 11-25-2003, 02:55 PM

approach her....be a gentleman and do it with class. yeh u better do it soon or she might be taken if u take your time. besides shyness can be a virtue, it shows u are humble and not full of yourself. play that up, bc it's the truth!

n00b · 11-25-2003, 09:43 PM

start walkin her to classes, try to spend time with her, like casually at first then you can show that you're interested in knowing her =)
good stuff

BgUrL_BeMuR · 01-28-2004, 02:50 PM

Suck it up and go for it.... She probably feels the same way. If not then move to the next. There are plenty of fish in the sea if you don't catch this one

D.J. Scrit · 01-28-2004, 09:51 PM

i dont know but everytime i walk around and see her she looks at me and turns around then when i turn around she looks at me..........just the other day she looked at me and then she looked down at her foot and then looked back at me......i dont really know what that means........

STIFF_UK · 01-28-2004, 10:04 PM

Look man - as far as I'm concerned that is about the best sign you can get.
Just go over and say hi. Just talk, get it past just knowing you exist and actually knowing your name and a bit about you. DON'T talk too much, DON'T ask questions that don't have simple answers.

eg.
Q - How are you?
A - Good.

Gotta start again = bad.

Strike up ocnversation.

Just don't sleep on it.
I just found out that a girl I have been in love with for years (like, about 10) and lost contact with a couple of years back - is getting married in April.
I slept on it and look where it got me. Just take the opportunity while you got it.

Wasted opportunities hurt SO much more than opportunities that didn't work out.

Next time you get something like her looking at you, then looking away before glancing back - then take a deep breat, get your shit together and go talk.

Don't waste shit like this.

electron · 01-29-2004, 01:32 AM

go for it - she's probably just shy, and is waiting to see if you talk to her... she's most likely just as afraid of rejection as you are - you'll get points for taking the risk... besides, it's not the first or the last time you'll be in this situation, get used to it , it's normal for human beings- be the one to take the plunge , even rejection isn't as bad as you imagine it to be . ANd i don't think it'll happen in your case

Moochy - Mania · 01-29-2004, 04:21 PM

i'm not the expert on girls , but i'll try to help from my experience . look , next time you look at each other , smile at her . you know , like this little smile ( make sure it's the right smile so you won't look like a pshycotic killer . practice at home infront of the mirror till the affect appear smooth ... ) . 3 results usually happen here here : 1 . she smiles back ( good , you have been qualified ) , 2 . she turns around ( the " hunters " will take that as a challange and get motivated ) 3 . she raise and eyebrow and think you're a weirdo ( that's bad , leave the crime scene ASAP ) .
option 1 is the preferable one . should it occure , you walk up to her , and start up a conversation . don't think days and nights before that about what you gonna say when you'll finally talk to her . just go in and talk what on your mind, be yourself and FLOW . don't be afraid of her beauty . it's a mask to make you weak and fragile so you'll stutter like a fool ( in some cases , also to hide the beast within , lol ) . now , you see everything go well ? go for it , ask her out . don't hesitate / runaway / blackout / on the situation , remember - those who don't try will never know . so , are you going to try ? or do you prefer nights full of endless nightmares, thoughts and regrets on what could've been ... lol . think about it .

Blue-Rotation · 01-29-2004, 08:58 PM

lmao nice advice moochy ...i like the part with psychotic killer type smiles...im working on that kind of smile >=D ....well anyways you could always bust out some no- handed mills then get up and look

payce

Moochy - Mania · 02-01-2004, 07:21 PM

some chicks may dig the psychopathic killer smile ... you should be careful about those tho , lol .

Blue-Rotation · 02-12-2004, 03:36 PM

erm well she might get a laugh or smile out of it... that or totally run away from you ROFL

Aura · **So did you hook up or what? -** 02-16-2004, 04:44 PM

(You ever notice how people don't reply back to their thread and monthes later people will be giving advice pointlessly while the actual author of the thread just ghosts?)

stingrgrl · 02-16-2004, 05:00 PM

what i say is.. if im not afraid of killing myself breaking, why am i afraid of tlkin to a guy i like? there is no physical risk.. enless he has a tough g/f lol.. and then again if hes single and we do get together it would b a good thing (with a diff kind of physical risk, lol)

the point is..she prolly wont reject u and if she does o well her prob
and you shouldnt be afraid or nervouse whats the worst she can do turn u inot a frog and if she does then shes a witch newaz..
so just go up to her and tlk doesnt matter what about and if u stutter or freeze it might just make u look cute

stingrgrl · 02-16-2004, 05:02 PM

** into lol looks like it says i not a frog lol