I understand what your saying.
But some girls love getting the attention, me myself, I'll admit that if I am on the dance floor busting some sick moves and a guy sees me and watches me, I will act upon that, I'll love the fact that he is watching me and thinks I'm a good dancer.
I don't think that this sort of attention is bad, I would see it as positive it makes the dancer feel more confident, bringing you to new levels of dancing.
I love to dance and I love it when others love watching me dance, they see me for who I am, a dancer, that is a real nice feeling, well thats my opinion, others may not like being pulled just because they are dancers.
I mean, I wouldnt say yes straight away to a guy when he has watched me dance, because he likes what I do and not me, but if he gets to know me first then things can go further.
I'm sure there are going to be peeps who disagree with me on this one, and if so I want to hear your feelings and comments on this one.
Holla back to all,
peace out B-girl Cassy x
ps I am only a beginner in the breaking world so my experience may be limited.