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Aura · 10-14-2003, 11:19 PM

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Originally posted by electron
you don't need to do something extraordinary

aura - i got back to israel last october and spent most of that month going to the beach - i watched meteors from there at 3 am and then went for couscous , i've fallen asleep on a blanket on the sand ... it's warm until , like december .

Word- I like the autumn here with the changing colors of the leaves and the crisp smell of winter steadily approaching..mmmmmm

Also she's right on the no need for the extreme here......and
Joe...elephants? lol that might cost a pretty penny!

Whens

Today is me and my mans 13 month mark...woohoo. He gave me a big kiss and mentioned it. I sent him an email telling him I love him. Thats about it and I think nothing less...you know every day should be a celebration with only subtle tokens of affection when you want to not cuz you have to.

B-Girl BaLi · 10-15-2003, 01:35 AM

well tha confusing thing about my relationship is there was not DEFINATE start ... soo... aniversaries dont really work.. but any way

um.. try buyin her a fish

in a plant ...

an name it or something... an make her a card

Aura · **The Betta Vase! -** 10-15-2003, 09:50 AM

(Its a vase with marbles or rocks on the bottom filled with water, add the fish and top it off with a lily plant. You can buy them made or buy the materials. Better off buying them made. Costs about the same)

Yeah I have like 3 of these. I love bettas! And I know you do too Bali!

Its probaby about 20-25 bucks to make though, but that would be cute. I don't think he has the money to spend though.

Hey Supersain- I was trying to ask in my last post: When is the big day?

supersain3D · 10-15-2003, 04:10 PM

well u c the Big day is a commin its on the 24 and well i got like 40 bucks and sht so yeah thnx u all for the ideas if u girls/guys have anemore ideas than say im for other times and trust me i have my own also

Mowicz · 01:32 AM

I dunno, but it sounded to me like he's got his plan...? If not, sorry for jumpin' in like this, but I got a dilemma of my own that hopefully you ladies could help me out with...

I'll keep it short and sweet: There's a girl that seems to be perfect for me, but neither of us exactly WANTS to date the other one or anything (Already friends, dun wanna screw anything up, y'know?), but it seems like we'd be a perfect match...Also we graduate this year, and we're goin' into completely different fields (I'm goin' into medical sciences, she's goin' into literature, AKA, 2 completely different colleges/universities), so I won't really be able to do much for more than about a year....Should I pursue this, and risk wrecking a friendship and put up with an LD relationship? You guys're smart! Teach me to be smart! lol

B-Girl BaLi · 10-16-2003, 02:49 AM

IMO long distance relationships some times can be the best thing in the world.. you realize how much you really care for the person when you can only see them at limited times... or.. you realize that they didnt really mean that much to you to begin with and it was all physical....

go 4 it.. youll kick yourself later if you dont ...

if shes not into you .. its still cool... most femalse wont act all weird..

Aura · 10-16-2003, 09:17 AM

Ok, Bali is gonna hit me for this later, but I would say....wait. If the feelings you speak of are still as strong when you're attending seperate colleges, then maybe, consider hooking up. You're still young and college is a big transition phase in your life. So, you may not want to get tied down just yet. There's also the possibility of having an "open" relationship meaning you're both free to see other people as well as each other. But since you'll barely see each other....what's the point?

I wouldn't hook up right before you leave. Because you two are good friends anyways, I would definitely maintain contact with her and visit when possible, just to keep in touch and leave the option of connecting- romantically, open. Just go with the flow, and concentrate on your school work.

Just my .02- this is a hard situation to deal with I can imagine~

B-Girl BaLi · 10-16-2003, 12:58 PM

naw aura .. its cool... im sayin from my experience.... your sayin from yours... its ALL Lgood ...

supersain3D · 10-16-2003, 03:59 PM

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Originally posted by Mowicz
I dunno, but it sounded to me like he's got his plan...? If not, sorry for jumpin' in like this, but I got a dilemma of my own that hopefully you ladies could help me out with...

I'll keep it short and sweet: There's a girl that seems to be perfect for me, but neither of us exactly WANTS to date the other one or anything (Already friends, dun wanna screw anything up, y'know?), but it seems like we'd be a perfect match...Also we graduate this year, and we're goin' into completely different fields (I'm goin' into medical sciences, she's goin' into literature, AKA, 2 completely different colleges/universities), so I won't really be able to do much for more than about a year....Should I pursue this, and risk wrecking a friendship and put up with an LD relationship? You guys're smart! Teach me to be smart! lol

lol i had the same prob last year but hey do waht is in ur heart and tht will lead u to ur answear

Mowicz · 10-16-2003, 08:04 PM

Thanks for the advice. The only thing is, I don't find her attractive in the slightest, and the feeling's mutual.....but personality wise, we're like a yin-yang.....so I dunno exactly what I'll do, but I still got a year. Hopefully I can figure it out by then.

Thanks again for the wisdom. Peace.

electron · 10-17-2003, 11:37 PM

you;re too young to really be thinking long term anyhow
and although mental compatability has a LOT to do with a relationship , it seems like you've got it all there right now then , seeing as you're not attracted to her . IF you try to take it to a level where that is kinda key , then it's going to mess stuff up for sure . I say , wait on it . No use trying to go somewhere that's not natural

hagios · 10-17-2003, 11:47 PM

hey, hehe, beaches are nice, but unless you go to some of the best beaches in the world, which all exist in Aus by the way, don't stress it.

The girls have covered the best bases, but then again it depends on what your girl is like, and what she perceives as romantic. But follow the girls advice, they know the ticket.

tinyD · **no way -** 10-18-2003, 04:25 PM

sounds like u are just settling for someone bc there is no one else at the moment and u wasnt a ladyfriend. don't do it! waste of time and effort. you'll find someone u totally like in all due time, probably when u least expect it, plus they'll be lots of hot chicks elsewhere next yr who'll love ya

Mowicz · 10-18-2003, 07:10 PM

Ho....lee......Crap. tinyD knows my mind better than I do....Seriously, that's exactly right, in that I never had an actual RELATIONSHIP, and am just trying to get someone in my life....someone to spoil. It seems I've got my answer now, thanks to everyone. From now on I'll jus leave the relationship stuff to the girls. Thanks again all. Peace.

supersain3D · 10-20-2003, 04:11 PM

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Originally posted by electron
you;re too young to really be thinking long term anyhow
and although mental compatability has a LOT to do with a relationship , it seems like you've got it all there right now then , seeing as you're not attracted to her . IF you try to take it to a level where that is kinda key , then it's going to mess stuff up for sure . I say , wait on it . No use trying to go somewhere that's not natural

dang thats not saying much for me but hey i dunno think there is any age to settle down at it could be 12 or 45 lol but hey w/e