[BGirlPnaiStyle]

Aiite..so this is tha deal. Im sick of askin advice from friends that dont bgirl/bboy or freestyle or anything like that cuz they dont understand as well as ya'll prollie will.

Theres this guy (yeah bgirls I kno ya'll have heard that befo haha)
He freestyles and hes hella good at it. Just last weekend he was up at tha club freestylin like always. He was tha opening act for some dope singer. After their performance, mah boi was signing autographs!!!!! Can you believe it? It was hella crazy but I was real happy for him cuz he might make it big...

While I am way psyched for him, there are a lotta chicks who flock to him jus cuz hes on stage and signing autographs and just wanna be seen with him...'groupies' if u will haha. That night at tha club I saw him with another girl. Now I know we're not going out or n e thing so he can still do w/e, but he knows that I like him and his friends say that hes crazy about me..so whats up with this..? I was so upset that I took a couple friends and we jus got in a huge circle and started BGirlin.


Aiite..so whatchu guys think..? I kno the storys kinda wacked, but I really need some advice. Do you think it would work out between a bgirl and a freestyle fella thats gettin a lotta hype...?

Keepin it real,

BGirlPnaiStyle

course it could work, no reason why it wouldnt. if you want him n hes crazy bout you, go for it. talk to him bout it. just cuz hes around chix doesnt really mean nething, yea hes popular. hes GONNA be around alotta girls wantin his shyt... i guess if you wanna be with this guy its something youre gonna havta get used to. but if you end up with him, its also something youre gonna havta talk to him bout n keep straight. theyr just FANS, nothing more. but you probly knew that already lol

i figure, if you both want it bad enough, dont worry bout everyone else. you do your thing, he does his thing.. dont worry bout who it attracts, you two keep it together with eachother. you know?

[rayray]

my opinion on this is that you shouldnt try too hard to get his attention...judging from the story, you already have it, so all you have to do is be honest to yourself, you know? i find that most girls get the most affection when theyre not trying to find a boyfriend, but are just being themselves. so just dont worry about it and everything will turn out fine, whether u get w/ him or not

[jAws]

yeah i guess rayray's right. you don't have to worry too much abt it. just chill. and enjoy.

[electron]

be yourself , not a groupie and see what happens ... have you just gone up and asked him if he wants to get a coffee sometime ? Plenty people flock to anyone who does well at their art form , it doesn't mean that they're going to wind up hooking up with their " idol " . Be real and treat him real - you're both involved in the culture already , pay no mind to the rest of it - sure it can work out .

[tinyD]

i agree with what she said for sure. also he'll get tired of groupies pretty quick...anyone who's true to the culture will bc they aren't in it for the posers who are in things for the fame and money. don't worry.....you're a bgirl and that's better than all the groupies put together.

d.

[Uniitd]

relationships... crazy shizy man? it's a job all it's own to some extent.

best advice i can give... don't try too hard. it's kinda freaky.

seriously... relationships sometimes just happen, but it doesn't hurt to give a push once in a while to develop it... but just a push no shovin.

Mo'

are you a filipina?

[noblasheep]

rayray is definitely right, relationships come by themselves

[crystalyte]

naw. all you need is your girls and your crew. forget the guy. guys come and go.

[Bboy EZ]

Wow, you've awoken a sleeping dragon thread, Crystalyte. Where did u find this thread it sooooo old, geeeeeeeez. Bad Crystal, bad!

[KiLLaBaNdaNnA]

this thread reminds me of my grandpa....Dead